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Welcome to my web said the spider to the fly; you are just in time for dinner :}   
What are we serving? No worries, mate, it is a family recipe.    
  
It is an interesting paradox that many therapies work with the presenting problems of their client, what I will call the cobwebs or spider webs.     
Unfortunately, 'the spiders' are left alone and the webs come back, flies are invited to dinner and the process begins again.   
     
In the case of a client who wants to stop smoking, 'abusive alchohol consumption' or nail bighting' - we can use hypnotherapy and provide a state of cessation related to these 'habits' or 'addictions'.         
Fine in & of itself, however, what was the benefit, or secondary gain that supported the habit of 'smoking'?  
 
There is a benefit for everything we do - no matter how great or even evil it may seem!  
The Positive Intention will always be satisfied over the desired change ... unless the desired change satisfies the intention.    
   
Again: Whatever a person does has an underlying benefit, regardless as to the appearance of risk to health, relationships or others,      
  
So what is the miracle cure?? John Grinder has named his part 'New Code NLP', I have blended this with other Meta Physical interventions and understandings and called it IDC -
{or} Intra Dimensional Clearing {before I knew of JG’s new Code, which I believe simply supports my method

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27/5/2008

 Are limiting beliefs and old statigies holding you back?

It is one of the NLP 'tools' to reveal and attend to persons limiting beliefs.  

I find that it is actually fun to work in concert with individuals to discover an alternate ‘self’ that was successful in an earlier time to protect the individual.

The previous success then became a strategy to resolve apparent similar conflicts. As the ‘whole’ becomes subservient to ‘the part’ that was successful,

Thus, the ‘Part' is allowed to continue as the solution while ‘the whole’ remains in conflict.

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“Spirituality is based on our intuitive knowing that there is more to our existence than what is dictated by our five senses of sight, hearing, taste, smell and touch.

Merely inquiring as to what spirituality is suggests that you are spiritual.

It is the act of contemplating our own existence.

Since the beginning of time, humans have asked perplexing questions.

             Why are we here? What is our purpose?

             What is our role in this universe?

Contemplating the meaning of life is in essence being spiritual.

Of all organisms, perhaps we alone are aware of our own existence, that perhaps are spiritual at some level”



For Me,


I am on a journey to find & learn the "Unknown Known’s" of Multiple Spiritual Disciplines and bring them into my realm of Esoteric Spiritual Christianity that embrases all beliefs of existance

 

Crayons

Namaste'

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