Welcome to my web said the spider to the fly; you are just in time
for dinner :}
What are we serving?
No worries, mate, it is a family recipe.
It
is an interesting paradox that many therapies work with the presenting problems of their client, what I will call the cobwebs
or spider webs.
Unfortunately,
'the spiders' are left alone and the webs come back, flies are invited to dinner and the process begins again.
In
the case of a client who wants to stop smoking, 'abusive alchohol consumption' or nail bighting' - we can use hypnotherapy
and provide a state of cessation related to these 'habits' or 'addictions'.
Fine
in & of itself, however, what was the benefit, or secondary gain that supported the habit of 'smoking'?
There is a benefit for everything we do
- no matter how great or even evil it may seem!
The Positive Intention will always be satisfied over the desired
change ... unless the desired change satisfies the intention.
Again:
Whatever a person does has an underlying benefit, regardless as to the appearance of risk to health, relationships or
others,
So what is the miracle cure?? John Grinder
has named his part 'New Code NLP', I have blended this with other Meta Physical interventions and understandings and called
it IDC -
{or} Intra Dimensional Clearing
{before I knew of JG’s new Code, which I believe simply supports my method